Is Love by nature manipulative?

November 17, 2006 at 2:42 pm 3 comments

I wanted to do one of those monday sucks posts, but really this monday does not suck. Well Man u won (again!), Arsenal drew( again-ha ha ha ha!) Liverpool drew (and am sure they are very very happy about the draw ama aje Aco?) am not mentioning chelsea couz they are not really a footbal club

Anyway, have you ever seen a couple who have nothing in common paka you are like: “aiii, how now?” Well its the love manipulation. Everybody develops multiple personalities when they are in love. They become a different person.

Let me start with love itself: You have been going out with this person for say one month, then suddenly they turn to you and say “I love you”, For the mamas the first thoughts will be “thank God he said it first” but for the jamaas it will be “Damn, Am I supposed to say it back?” And Boom right there is the first love manipulation. You can’t very well say “thank you very much” or “you’re welcome” Of course you have to say “I love yu too” in that shy whispering voice that this words often seem to bring out in everyone.

Now once those words are said, there really is no turning back. Your will is no longer your own. No body other than someone you love can make you wear that red dress over and over and over. (because he said you look good in it- so you keep wearing the dress to please him). Look at how many girls watch soccer without really understanding why Graham Poll was sent home during the world cup.

Why is it that you would kick your friends ass from here to Timbuktu if he suggested you watch cuando ses Mia, but you would gladly watch it with your latest mama? Arent we then manipulated to be who we are not? And its not compromise.

SEX: Anyone who has ever had a one night stand (ONS) will tell you that it easier to give traffic like instructions to someone you know you will never see again, than to someone you will need to share a glass of orange juice with the next morning. WHY? because you do not care what the ONS thinks, but you would want your lover to think the best of you. Chances are you probably enjoyed the ONS alot more!

It is probably why so many people cheat on their partners, they are not allowed to be themselves, the minute you decide to tell your partner that you actually really really like oral sex or you really don’t like sex in the morning “you have changed soo muchwhile infact you haven’t changed, that was the manipulated you!

Tears: Enuff said!

Thought: why do all those chicks in porn flicks wear a chain with a heart on it?


Entry filed under: manipulation.

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3 Comments Add your own

  • 1. Nakeel  |  November 23, 2009 at 12:44 pm

    Lol mami you have made my day. I do think different people look at it in different ways majority will be manipulative but dare you point out it is you will be slayed. Yes we are watching Storm over Paradise every 8 o’ clock lol but others dont even know how many points a try is worthy yet we all fight to go and watch rugby.

  • 2. Gish  |  December 4, 2009 at 4:58 pm

    Love is interesting me thinks. Am back on the love train again, its interesting and more different than i thought it would be.

  • 3. kellie  |  December 5, 2009 at 2:26 pm

    When you look at it that way, love is indeed manipulative.

    Maybe it’s just me, but it actually easier to tell someone I’ve been in a relationship for sometime what I like in bed, as opposed to one I haven’t.


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